Real Talk for Writers

with Isabel Sterling

Author & Master Certified Coach
Writing Through Existential Despair emotional resilience existential despair journal prompts Oct 20, 2025

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You're Not Lazy: Resting Between Projects burnout celebration rest Oct 06, 2025

Congrats! You did the thing!

You finished your novel and sent it off to a critique partner, your agent, or your editor. 

Now what? 

For many authors, the time between projects can feel strange. You might feel unmoored, adrift, or--most insidious of all--lazy for not having an active project goin...

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People Pleasing Your Publisher confidence intentional thoughts people pleasing Sep 22, 2025

So... Last week I cut my pinky in a way that makes it painful (and slow) to write.

Rather than skipping this issue of Real Talk for Writers, I decided to pull a short but insightful email I wrote last year and give it a permeant place here. I hope you enjoy, and I'll be back (hopefully!) on October...

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September Challenge: 30 Days to Better Confidence challenge confidence emotional resilience journal prompts Sep 08, 2025

*Reminder: Real Talk for Writers is on a biweekly schedule for the remainder of 2025. If you want more support for your author career, be sure to check out The Author Burnout Cure Podcast, which will continue to post weekly.* 

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Confidence is one of the key "soft skills" for a successful (enjoya...

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"Is It Worth It?" (How to Make Investment Decisions in Your Author Career) author finances investments marketing sales numbers Aug 25, 2025

*A quick note before I dive in: Real Talk for Writers is shifting to a biweekly schedule for the remainder of 2025. If you want more support for your author career, be sure to check out The Author Burnout Cure Podcast, which will continue to post weekly.* 

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I've been part of several conversatio...

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Why Success *and* Failure Can Make It Harder to Write Aug 18, 2025

In order to build a career as a novelist, you need to write--and publish--multiple books over time.

This is true no matter how many copies any particular book sells. Whether you make it onto a bestseller list or a grand total of ten people buy your novel in the first year, your next step is always ...

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How New Titles Impact Your Backlist backlist sales numbers Aug 11, 2025

After playing around in the author portal last week for the Real Talk issue on royalty statements, I dug a little deeper to explore the impact of new releases on the sales of previous books. The findings were interesting, so I decided to share them with all of you.

Before I dive in, an important ca...

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Royalty Statements: July 2025 advance author finances royalties sales numbers taxes Aug 04, 2025

This week's issue of Real Talk for Writers came as a request from a few debut authors that I know. There is so rarely transparency when it comes to sales numbers (author Jason June being one of the rare exceptions -- the royalty posts on his newsletter inspired some of my formatting this week), whic...

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Why Celebration is Non-Negotiable burnout celebration confidence journal prompts Jul 28, 2025

Regular celebration is essential to crafting a burnout-free, sustainable fiction career.

Yet celebration is also the most commonly skipped -- or delayed -- parts of the process I teach.

Authors will tell me that it's "too soon" to celebrate when they get a new book deal because it's not "officia...

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Emotionally Preparing to Go on Sub confidence emotional resilience journal prompts rejection submission Jul 21, 2025

Many stages in publishing are emotionally fraught, and that is especially true for going on sub with a new project.

This is true whether whether you're trying to sell your debut novel, come back from a gap in your books, making a career pivot, or taking a book out wide after a disappointing experie...

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Rest Alone Doesn't Solve Burnout... But It's Still Important burnout rest Jul 14, 2025

If you're struggling with burnout, taking a break from writing can be really useful.

When you reach a point where the thought of writing feels genuinely exhausting, giving yourself a couple weeks (or more!) where you pause all writing tasks to rest and refill your creative well can be incredibly us...

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Answering Awkward Qs about Your Author Career confidence relationships Jul 07, 2025

"I have this really great idea for a novel -- you should write it for me!"

"I'd love to write a book. If only I had the time!" 

"You should turn your book into a movie! And then cast me. And all my friends."

"What do you mean I don't get a free copy? I'm your sister's best friend's third cousin t...

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